You've probably been giggling about the number 69 since you were in middle school. But have you tried it? Have you ever thought that it might be just what your relationship needs to deal with that thorny problem of not having simultaneous orgasms. One beautiful thing about 69ing is that it's the great equalizer. Men and women can do it, men and men, women and women, and anyone else. It also means that both people get to "give" and "receive", and at the same time. Many people think of 69 as foreplay only, but if you really put your heart into it and are willing to break a sweat, you might find it offers intense and simultaneous orgasms that can bring you closer than ever to your partner! Ready to get your bedroom acrobatics on? Read on for more ideas: Facesitting, Handjobs Foto Pixelio Wagschal
Vanilla. It generally refers to tender, romantic sex that moves rather slowly, involving lots of caresses and looking deep into each other's eyes. It's the "making love" that 50 Cent isn't into. Sometimes when people say "vanilla," they specifically mean sex in the missionary position. Basically, it's a term for "boring" sex, even if you say it lovingly about an activity you enjoy. Usually, it is used in contrast to kinky or BDSM sex, indicating it as free of these traits. But in fact it can be hard to draw such a clear distinction. Power dynamics, hair-pulling, anal sex and dirty talk tend to work their way into most bedrooms. What works for you works for you. If having loving sex, with people you love in some form is what makes you feel empowered, beautiful and satisfied the next morning, then that is precisely what you should do.
A Variation of Doggy Style... The easier version of doggy style is spooning. Partners lie on their sides and the person in back penetrates either the anus or vagina. In this position hands are free to explore their partner’s body and pay closer attention to breasts, nipples and other erogenous zones. …what’s in a name? The name comes from the similarities in appearance between spoons nested together and the two people. Another advantage of this position is increased physical contact and the partners can mold themselves together. Peaked your interest? Want to read more? Then try these links: Anal Sex, Vanilla, Oral Sex
For many people their butt cheeks are the best foreplay ever. Some people find it a massive turn on when their partner glides their cock up and down the small of their back and along the crack between their butt cheeks. It can be also highly stimulating for many women when it caresses her labia and anus. Give the Cheeks a Good Rub Many men find a beautiful ass just as amazing as a gorgeous set of breasts. With cheeks tightly closed together and a hard cock pushing inside, both partners can experience incredible orgasms. What does the woman get out of it? For a lot of men this type of sex is enough but for many women it’s just a bit of nice foreplay and look forward to vaginal sex afterwards. With a bit of lube the cock will slide right in to a pussy or anus, depending on your preference of course. Women usually say that cheek only sex (with no penetration) gets them excited that a man finds their ass that sexy. Butt Cheek Massage In this variation involves one partner massaging the other person’s oiled body with their butt cheeks. A word of caution the person receiving should be able to handle the top person’s weight. Get off your ass already and try it out! Or if you want more: Anal sex, Fingering, Butts
You may have seen something entitled "The Kama Sutra" on a coffee table or in a sex shop. This is usually a book filled with pictures or illustrations, complete with a listing of a great many sexual positions and suggestions for pleasure. But that version has been simplified from the original Kama Sutra that originates from the Hindu tradition. This book, known in Sanskrit as the "Verses of Desire", was very long and complex. It not only discussed sex positions, but also the social and biological factors that relate to sexual activity. It talked about prostitution, sadomasochism, genital piercings, drug use and abuse, cheating, and power dynamics between the genders. In other words, the original Kama Sutra really did justice to the complexity of sexuality, but the bookstore versions probably don't include all that. But it doesn't mean they don't provide interesting and helpful suggestions to deepen your sexual experience. For more sexy stuff, check out these links: Ass Play, Erotic Art, Tantric Sex , Erotic Fiction
A threesome with two women and a man is slightly different than a MMF threesome. Women can generally be softer with their caressing attention and oral sex. With two women in the mix, they're free to express any bisexual urges. Maybe it's biology or maybe just fantasies, but woman-woman-man threesomes are pretty common place sex toys. Again the imagination knows no boundaries: For example, while one woman busies herself with his cock the other can be playing with her partners or herself using a dildo or vibrator masturbation. Or they can all play with whatever sex toys are around and get each other off that way. The possibilities are endless! Other variations of Menage-á-Trois are of course also possible, it all depends on who and what is involved in the fun. Some enjoy a bit of BDSM and others stand by vanilla sex - all kinds of sexy contacts can be made on dating websites. The idea of more than one partner got you hot to trot? Check out more: Group Sex, Partner Swapping, Threesome, Swinging
Threesomes. So enticing, yet so complicated. Threesomes with two men and a woman are common; sometimes both men are going to be with the woman one after the other, or all three are going at it simultaneously. It's also a good opportunity for newbies to try out any gay urges they may have. In practicality, threesomes can be a bit tricky to balance the attention. Finding a place where everyone is getting equal attention is not always easy, but through communication and practice everyone can get satisfied. Of course if role-play or exhibitionism is your thing, a threesome might be the perfect time to have an uninvolved audience. . Whichever variation you prefer, threesomes can be really good for relationships. Just make sure there is a ton of communication before and after play. Respect everyone's boundaries so that discovery of any feelings and preferences can be done honestly. Interested in other sexy options with multiple partners? Swing over to these pages: Partner Swapping, FFM, Threesomes, Group Sex
Group sex involves three or more people, but usually isn't centered around an established couple, as a threesome is. Group sex might originate during a night at a swingers' club, or at a sex club. Sometimes people also seek each other out online. There are more and more sites that make this possible, and it often has the advantage of avoiding the complications of jealousy or the risks of unstable couple relationships. Group sex can also be part of outdoor, dogging (British English) or adult movie theater activities. The underlying pleasure comes from emotional detachment, and the thrill of getting to know strangers in such an intensely stimulating setting. Although group sex has been a source of mass fun since ancient times, it has its modern caveats. Safer sex is an absolute must in these contexts, and consent should be in constant negotiation through communication between partners, strangers or not. More on the beauty of group sex here: Free Love, FFM, MMF, Threesome, Polyamory, Swinger Club Search, Swinging Photo Pixelio: Hofschlaeger
Gangbangs are a form of group sex where only one woman or "bottom" is involved. That means a whole group of men are participating in the sex at the same time, all focused on the same partner. Usually, the lucky lady takes it in the vagina and/or ass while keeping the others in line hard with blowjobs and hand jobs. This is often quite a workout, reminiscent of Hindu gods with tons of hands! The icing on the gangbang cake can be a bukkake finale, where all of the men ejaculate on the woman's face, breasts, ass or stomach. There's also such a thing as a reverse gangbang, where only one man is involved, only the ending tends to be less sensational. Learn more about gangbangs by clicking below: FFM, MMF, Nymphomania, Threesome