The amount of pain depends on the quality of the candles and the height the wax is dropped from. The sensation could be a nice lukewarm, or a searing hot. Smaller candles and wax falling from higher up tend to be less hot. The wax pools a bit, and is then spilled with care onto the willing victim. Sex shops often sell candles that have a lower melting point for less risk of burning. The idea is to get a nice redness with a little puff in the skin, but not to injure anyone. As wax pools and cools, a layer will be formed over the skin. A whip or a switch might be just perfect to snap that apart. For any bears among us, though, it might be wise to put a layer of plastic between your body hair and that wax, unless you are into a really, really, really painful finish! For more hot ways to spice it up, check out: Blindfolds, BDSM, Bondage
Threesomes. So enticing, yet so complicated. Threesomes with two men and a woman are common; sometimes both men are going to be with the woman one after the other, or all three are going at it simultaneously. It's also a good opportunity for newbies to try out any gay urges they may have. In practicality, threesomes can be a bit tricky to balance the attention. Finding a place where everyone is getting equal attention is not always easy, but through communication and practice everyone can get satisfied. Of course if role-play or exhibitionism is your thing, a threesome might be the perfect time to have an uninvolved audience. . Whichever variation you prefer, threesomes can be really good for relationships. Just make sure there is a ton of communication before and after play. Respect everyone's boundaries so that discovery of any feelings and preferences can be done honestly. Interested in other sexy options with multiple partners? Swing over to these pages: Partner Swapping, FFM, Threesomes, Group Sex
Sex on the beach is more than just your favorite drink (admit it). It's obviously an enticing activity. As soon as you picture a beach with sand, you might be less enticed. And we hear you. Boy, do we hear you. But there are those who will not be thwarted! It's hot, there are so many glistening bodies, and you're almost naked anyway! This is where the Europeans can help out! European seas and shores are dotted with nude beaches and private resorts, and not only will you find beaches that welcome nudity (perhaps with enormous fig leaves blocking the neighbors' view of your hanging fruits) but also some that welcome impromptu sexual performances, and may even provide an audience. Whether you're a shower or a watcher, or both, you might find this type of vacation more relaxing than average! For more adult fun in the sun here: Parking Lot Sex, Exhibitionism, Nudism, Voyeurism