The balls aren't much to look at, but they are a fascinating feature of the male physique. Not only do they produce millions of spermatozoa for the entire lifespan of the bearer, they also produce testosterone, creating the male sex characteristics like facial hair and voice deepening. What you need to know about these organs is that although they may look and feel like the shriveled, dehydrated version of Chinese stress balls, they are very useful for a happy sex life. Think about ways to work them in, you'll be surprised at the payoff in your male partner's pleasure! One good tip is that while the shaft of the dick likes soft, wet and warm, and absolutely does not like texture, sharpness or tugging, the balls are quite the opposite. Sucking balls isn't actually all that exciting. Scratching, pinching, scraping and tugging however, can send a guy through the roof. More fun ideas for the undercarriage here: Watersports, Handjobs, Oral Sex
The amount of pain depends on the quality of the candles and the height the wax is dropped from. The sensation could be a nice lukewarm, or a searing hot. Smaller candles and wax falling from higher up tend to be less hot. The wax pools a bit, and is then spilled with care onto the willing victim. Sex shops often sell candles that have a lower melting point for less risk of burning. The idea is to get a nice redness with a little puff in the skin, but not to injure anyone. As wax pools and cools, a layer will be formed over the skin. A whip or a switch might be just perfect to snap that apart. For any bears among us, though, it might be wise to put a layer of plastic between your body hair and that wax, unless you are into a really, really, really painful finish! For more hot ways to spice it up, check out: Blindfolds, BDSM, Bondage