Most people who give blowjobs have a routine down; they either spit or swallow the cum, and they know when they to mix it up. Since about two thirds of adults practice oral sex, the question comes up quite often. Some people think asking a woman to swallow is sexist, and that it asserts male dominance in an overly extreme way. But dominance might be play for some people, and many women like the sensation of swallowing. Others think spitting is showing rejection, and whatever the case might be for you and your partner, we have to respect people's preferences. Find related topics here: Oral Sex, Quickies, Cocks
Erotic art is as old as time. Nudes, most often done with paint, pencil, and more recently photography, are common forms of portraying and encouraging our seductive ways. Great historical examples are the murals of fertility rites, that can be found in the French caves of Lascaux. Also in Pompeii where the ancient Romans covered brothel doors and even sidewalks with erotic decorations. Of course, we can hardly be shocked by these naughty depictions, since porn, Hentai and nude photography are so common nowadays. Perhaps some of the subtleties have been lost in favor of extreme close-ups and money shots. All the same, we have a world of traditions at our finger tips; we have plenty to appreciate.