It’s too late to run away and join the circus at your age, but there’s always time to jack it all in and join the alternative community in San Francisco instead. This sparkly town is loved for its tolerance and difference, which has encouraged all kinds of deviants and creative types to make it their home. Over fall the kinky community is staging a bawdy schedule of events and happenings that’ll keep everyone occupied - no matter what their fetish of choice happens to be. So whether you’re a resident, or just dropping in for a wild weekend, check out this season's delicious sex positive events in San Francisco
Little Darling's Kinky Nights
Little Darlings is best known as a straight North Beach strip club, but a couple of times every month, the lights go down and out come the animals. If you’ve ever dreamed of being seduced by a supernatural female entity this is your chance, as porn star Daisy Ducati, who describe herself on Twitter as a ‘Professional Succubus’ visits our planet to entertain and enlighten. Each night she introduces a fellow porn-princess to the stage, so if Arabelle Raphael floats your boat, get down there on October 24th for plenty of floorshow action. Doors open at 11pm and there are no pre-sale tickets.
Haunt, by Kinky Salon
Founded by Polly Pandemonium and Scott Levkoff, back in 2013, Kinky Salon positions itself somewhere between a fancy dress party and a community support group – with a little fetish stuff thrown in. This month sees them throwing a bash entitled Haunt, in their top-secret new Oakland home, it’ll run over Halloween weekend for two nights in all. Expect dark corners, circus freaks, cute demons and plenty of ghoulish entertainment. Everything that’s produced by the Kinky Salon camp is down to their army of volunteers, so if you’re a great organizer, or enthusiastic about their cause, check out their homepage for more details.
Ravish SF
If your dinner is missing a touch of eroticism, then get a ticket for this month’s RAVISHSF meet up. This underground dinner party collective offer food, play and seductive entertainment, all in the space of one carnally-charged evening. The venues are rarely confirmed in advance, but take place at atmospheric pop-ups throughout the city. Dress like fetish demon with a mask and get ready to greedily lust after your partner - or other guests - as the organisers set up a couple of kinky games. Then sit back and get cosy with your tablemates for an intimate live performance. And if you’re a fussy eater, don’t worry about the quality of the eats, they’ve got in professional chef, Peter Jackson, of Boucherie Meats, to take care of it.
Cool munch nights at Wicked Grounds
Most of us have dreamed of becoming a Very Important Pervert at one time or another, and if your ego cannot wait a moment longer head over to Wicked Grounds to have the honor finally bestowed upon you. VIP’s subscriptions enable this kinky coffee shop to fund educational and community projects, along with a host of hot stuff they lay on during the Folsom Street Fair. The cafe has a packed calendar full of all kinds of delights, but if you’re into BDSM check out the themed munches which take place throughout each month. The owners make it very easy for people to launch an event of their own, so if you’re ready to be the host or hostess with the mostess, from rope demos, to fetish literature book signings, get in touch to discuss the details. Once you’ve been there and done that, don’t forget to buy the t-shirt, available from their small online boutique.
The SF Citadel Open Event
SF Citadel have worked hard to foster a safe place that’s also badass enough to keep bondage types coming back for more, month after month. If you’re a newbie to them or to the scene in general, it’s probably best to start with one of their Citadel Open Events. These well organised play parties are hosted by a dungeon master or mistress and give guests access to a smorgasbord of cool BDSM equipment that most of us can only dream about. The emphasis is on respect, so show up ready for action in your finest leather regalia, or get a (non-alcoholic) drink and hover around until you feel like getting your freak on – it’s your choice. During the week they also run classes and events for anyone with a kinky slant who’s interested in exploring their sexuality further.
Did we miss any other sex positive events coming up in San Francisco this fall? Let us know in the comments!
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