The search for the male g-spot is not as recent as its female counterpart, which seems to have been going on for decades. There has been some research to suggest that men have many different g-spots that can cause a great deal of sexual pleasure. The holy grail of the g-spot is the prostate, but before you head straight for the prostate, it is a good idea to consider the other types of sensitive spots that a guy has. Note that there are differences in sensitivity, and preference, among all men. Some spots will produce more sexual arousal than others for men that you know. As always, it is best to experiment and to find out which area a male prefers before going to the prostate.
The part of the scrotum where it attaches to the body is considered to be a form of g-spot. It contains a mass of sensitive tissues, very similar to the erectile tissue of the penis. It can be a very good area for stimulation which can cause very intense arousal. Another area of the penis which is very good for stimulation is an area known as the frenulum, sometimes looked at in the same way as a clitoris. This area, a very fine line on the undersides of the head of the penis, is very sensitive in terms of possessing a number of nerve endings. It can be extremely stimulating for a man to have his frenulum teased, licked and tickled. Then there is always the reaphe, a very thin strip of flesh that runs alongside the base of the scrotum. Again, teasing or licking this area can bring very intense pleasure. Just like for a woman, context is everything, and just going straight for one g-spot as opposed to another can be quite boring. Try to vary what you do and find out what your partner likes. There is nothing like the element of surprise.
So when it comes to the male g-spot, you should not always head straight for the prostate as being the focus of male pleasure. There are lots of different areas to try and they can give him a lot of pleasure.
The prostate is a key part of the reproductive system in the male and is found in most mammals. The prostate is actually a gland, very different from the other parts of the reproductive system. If you were to look at a prostate you would see that it looks like a walnut, but slightly bigger. Despite its small size the prostate has a very important function. It spends most of its days producing a milky white fluid that makes up the most substantive part of male semen. Although a few other male glands make other parts of semen, the prostate is the king of production in this area. Almost three quarters of male semen is generated by this spunky little organ. Excitingly, the fluid produced is called ‘Prostatic fluid’ which is not a progressive rock band, but rather the first parts of an ejaculation. The prostatic fluid is the best part of an ejaculation, and the lucky sperm who end up in this initial burst have a much better chance of swimming and survival. Men also consider that the first spurts of an ejaculation correspond with the strongest orgasm and so in this respect their brain’s and their prostates are of one mind.
Because the prostate is such an exciting little gland, it is possible for a man to achieve orgasm through stimulation of the prostate. This might happen during a prostate massage, or thought anal play or sex.
It' s easy! You don’t need to be a doctor to find yours or someone else’s prostate. It is inside the rectum, within finger length in most cases, and feels like a small walnut at the top of the passage. The best way to stimulate the prostate is to use a finger, a penis, or a massager into the prostate. You can combine prostate stimulation with other forms of masturbation.
Once you have found the prostate you can tickle, tease, press or grind it. Be gentle, but try to find out what sort of pleasure your partner likes. You will find that your partner may start to leak seminal fluid from their penis. This can feel like a very gentle, sensual, orgasm and many men describe the feeling as being very intense.
The royal road to the prostate is to use technology. This can help you to find the prostate and also to stimulate it. A prostate massager can come in various shapes and sizes, but is normally usually thin and curved. This enables the massager to find the prostate more easily. To use a massager, it should be gently twisted in a round fashion to give a suitable massage. You can also find that dildos, butt plugs and other vibrating devices can give a great prostate massage. You will find that may such devices are of a suitable size, shape and texture to allow you to give an excellent prostate massage to your partner.
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