Masturbating with Toys

Ah, masturbation - the silent-in-the-dark-night-time-afraid-to-get-caught sexual activity that everyone does and few admit to. For the record, masturbation is a healthy sexual activity that can actually help you sleep better, feel more relaxed, and have better sex. But if you've been masturbating the same way since you were 15, it's time to take things up a notch.

There's nothing wrong with your hand. It's quite an effective tool, actually. But if you're ready to take your wanking habit to a new level, it's time to break out the toys.

For any woman with a private stash, this comes as no surprise. But what you might not realize is that men can use toys, too. And some toys you don't associate with masturbation work great in helping you get off.

Vibrators: Pick a size, any size

• Want a small bullet that you can press to your clit? For the guys, hold the smaller bullet vibrators to the tip of your cock while you stroke yourself with the other hand. You're welcome.

• Don't forget the rabbit, ladies. Clit and g-spot stimulation? Yes please!

• Vibrating dildos are probably my favorite toy. You get the full feeling if you insert it, plus the tingly sensations from the vibrations. Look for one with multiple settings and you can take your orgasm from small moans to thrashing, writhing screams in a matter of seconds. And I mean that for men and women.

• Need something with power? The Magic Wand and assorted knock-offs might send you through the roof the first time you try one. Start with the low setting and work your way up to high. For me, my Hitachi is guaranteed to make me squirt (the fluids make amazing gurgling sounds over the vibrating head.) For the guys, run the head up and down your shaft. Your toes will curl and your balls will tighten in no time. My partner has had a few orgasms like this, and they're the most erotic things I've ever witnessed.

Dildos

Whether you prefer a thick, 12-inch silicone cock or a smaller, respectable glass dildo, these are great masturbation aids. Fuck a pussy with them and pound the g-spot. With enough lube and practice, they can be used for anal play, too. (Make sure to properly clean your toys and never pull it out of an ass and put it into a vagina without cleaning first. I don't care what they do in porn. It's not a safe way to play.) No, the dildo may not make you orgasm, but it will definitely enhance the sensations for you.

Anal Plugs

My personal favorite is a vibrating anal plug. I get the stimulation from being plugged and from the vibrations. A little clit action, and I might hit the ceiling with the force of the orgasm. Sometimes the thrill is in the idea that anal play is forbidden or dirty. For some, it's the slight pain - although with enough lube, going slow, and relaxation, pain should be minimal or non-existent.

I would be remiss if I didn't mention prostate massage for men. And yes, there are toys that will do the job if a partner isn't around to rub you right. Or maybe your partner doesn't want to be put their fingers in certain places. It's different from an anal plug, but it's definitely a toy that should be considered for more intense sexual experiences and orgasms - whether you're playing together or alone.

Masturbation is a fun, easy way to get yourself - or your partner - off. Toys aren't meant to be a replacement for a real person - unless you're really bored with your hand. Instead toys enhance the experience and give you sensations you can't get on your own. Stock up at your local adult store - or pick from one of thousands of online stores - and start building a stash. It's time to turn masturbation time into play time.

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