Fuck all day: making sex an all-day event

So much of sex is in the buildup, and that happens in the body and the mind. The more you play with your partner, and the longer you stretch things out, the more powerful the orgasm will be. Here are seven ways you can make sex a steamy, all-day event.

1. Set expectations first thing in the morning

Let your partner know what to expect throughout the day, and that no matter how much he or she wants it, there will be no orgasms until that night. Begin with something to get him or her going and excited for the day ahead. This can be with a toy, oral, hands, or whatever will be more affective for your partner.

2. Tease away

Do little things to keep the desire going. If your partner becomes distracted, a nibble here, a kiss there, or a roaming hand can draw their attention right back. If you aren’t in the same location, naughty texts and sexy phone calls can be just as fun.

3. Leave hints

This part can be so much fun! As most of us have tasks to do throughout the day, finding clues or notes around the house is a great way to keep the buildup going. A note on the washing machine, the coffee pot, or delivered to work, with secrets of what to expect later, is sure to keep the tingles going strong.

4. Take time for sensual touch

Sensual touch tunes us in to a deeper level of consciousness with our partner. This can happen by taking a hot bath together and washing one another, using breath and tantric practices, or erotic massage. The key here is to go further into your partner’s mind, where our most delicious desires dwell.

5. Leave your partner hanging

After the sensual touch, your partner will likely be highly turned on and ready to go. This is a great time to give your partner a little taste. Bend her over the bed, or stroke his cock, but this is just a taste! The point here is to achieve all the buildup, and stop before the big release. Remind your partner the rest will come after dinner.

6. Dine together

Dining with your full focus on your partner is best. While restaurants can be fun and less work, they’re distracting. Keeping your thoughts centered on your partner will be far more affective when the meal is finished. Plus… dining at home means the potential for nakedness at the table, and who doesn’t love that?

7. The final finish

After all the buildups, clues, teases, sensual moments, and dining in the nude, now is the time to deliver on all the promises! Your partner has been patient all day, and deserves you pouncing on him or her, so get to it. By the time your partner reaches orgasm, all the buildup from the day should make it one impressive release!

Sienna Saint-Cyr writes erotica and blogs about kink, poly, body image, most things relating. Follow her on her website or on Twitter @siennasaintcyr.

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