You're hard, and your partner is ready to go, then, where's the condom? Condoms don't have to kill the mood. Here are some ways of keeping the condom part of the fun!
When you think of condoms, do you immediately think, “Hell yeah, now I get to fuck!” Or are you filled with a sense of dread?
Condoms kill the mood.
They break easily.
They make me less sensitive.
I HATE using a condom!
Stop. Right. There. Condoms only turn you off if you let them. Consider them one step in the prevention of disease, unwanted pregnancy, and awkward conversations later.
Practice Makes Perfect
If rolling a condom down your dick makes you shrivel up, you might just need more practice. Think about how smooth your moves will be if you’re able to whip out the condom and slide it on in a few seconds.
Don’t open the package with your teeth - no matter how sexy you think you’ll look doing it. You could rip the condom and defeat the purpose of even using it.
The more condoms you put on, the faster you’ll get at it. In case you don’t have dozens of partners lining up to let you practice your condom-rolling skills, work on it alone. Yes, you’ll go through a few condoms with none of the fun, but it’ll make your next fuck much better.
Make it Part of the Intimacy
You imagine the conversation, aren’t you? You’re kissing their neck, fondling their nipples, maybe even getting some fingering action going. Both of you are ready to fuck, and now you’ve got to stop and get the condom.
Instead of pulling back and stuttering about needing protection, whisper it in your partner’s ear. Tell them you’re ready to suit up and fuck them senseless.
Don’t turn away and make it awkward. Keep the condoms close by (you’ll want to ensure to have done this before getting naked) and grab one while maintaining as much physical contact as possible.
Your partner can keep touching and kissing you while you do it. They can even be the one to put it on you, stroking your dick or playing with your balls to keep you both in the mood.
What is the Right Fucking Condom?
Ask any woman, and she’ll tell you that it takes several tries to find a lot of things that fit right. Makeup foundation, bras, panties, sexual partners. Now it’s your turn. Take your time to find the condom that doesn’t feel like you’ve just put up a tarp between your junk and your partner.
Keep the novelty condoms for after you know you’re both clean and you just want to make your dick glow in the dark or taste like strawberries. Instead, try a variety of brands to find the right fit.
Skyn Elite is thin and good for anyone with a latex allergy.
Lambskin condoms are still a thing although they only prevent pregnancy, not STDs.
Several brands offer “For her pleasure” or “For his pleasure” varieties.
Lelo has the HEX condom which isn’t without controversy for all its strength, thinness, and uniqueness.
Ultimately, making sure condoms don’t kill your sexy mojo comes down to a bit of effort on your part. You know you need to wear them - unless you want a crusty dick and/or a screaming baby in your life. The trick is to find the condom and the method that ensures you and your partner still have a steamy, hot time in the process.
Got your own tips and tricks for wrapping it up? Share in the comments below or see what's happening in the forum!
Kayla Lords is a freelance writer, sex blogger, and a masochistic babygirl living the 24/7 D/s life. Follow her on her website or on Twitter @Kaylalords.
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.