As men are the main target group for porn in any form, one might think women don't fantasize as much. That couldn't be more wrong, and it’s not all about making love on a rug in front of the fireplace, either. We're no delicate flowers and we can also have a down right dirty side. Let’s have a look at a few (fairly) common female fantasies that might surprise their partners…
There’s a little Domina in us all and many women enjoy the fantasy of making the man obey her completely in the bedroom and making him beg for what he wants. The feeling of being completely in control can be a massive turn-on. On the other hand, being dominated, being tied up and/or spanked for pleasure also ranks high in women’s fantasies – why do you think 50 Shades of Grey became such a phenomenon?
Going for it with a complete stranger can be extremely liberating. When you never have to see the person again, you can let loose totally and forget all about inhibitions and other things you might worry about when having sex with somebody you actually care about. Women enjoy fantasizing about grabbing that hot bartender or the random guy in the waiting room for a quickie in the restroom – only to never see them again.
Be it a threesome with your partner and another woman/man or a bigger group of swingers, a gang bang has its appeal. The more the merrier, right? A threesome might be a safe way to explore that lesbian sex fantasy (let’s face it – most women do entertain that particular fantasy, since women are just hot) or to get two guys at the same time. The anonymity of a group fuck can also act as a liberator, the same way than fucking a stranger.
Whatever the turn-on factor is – be it the boss and the secretary, the prostitute and the client, the doctor and the patient or any sort of a situation you can imagine – many women find it easier to let loose and explore their sexuality in the safety of a role. Your woman might imagine you in a whole different role than your usual self and it can turn her on big time.
The chance that somebody is watching and getting turned on by watching you do your thing might be just the thing you need to elevate the hotness to a whole new level. For those little exhibitionists out there nothing is hotter than the thrill of maybe getting caught.
Saving the best for last. Now this really might come as a surprise for most men but it’s not that uncommon for a woman to fantasize about being the one doing the fucking for a change. She might want to strap it on and give it to you, shall we say, doggy style. Now that can be really good or really bad, depending on your disposition.
When discussing fantasies, it’s nevertheless important to remember that more often than men, women prefer to keep their fantasies as they are – just fantasies - instead of going for them in real life. So before you go tying her up, matching her up with a hot female friend or, God forbid, buying a strap-on, make sure if she actually wants her fantasies to materialize.
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