Top 10 UK Sex Positive October Events

The nights are drawing in, and autumn is most definitely here. Long summer evenings spent outdoors and weekend picnics are becoming a thing of the past, but that does not mean that you can't still get out and about and explore some the naughty events that are happening all over the UK this month. Whether you fancy a bit of sexy shopping or some playful burlesque, then this list has you covered.

Tantra Secrets for Ecstatic Relationship (1st October 2017) 

Fancy exploring a bit of Tantric loving? This event is a one day workshop for couples and singles to learn how to develop Tantra as part of a loving relationship. You will be learning from Ma Ananda Sarita who is a Tantra Master, author and educator. Areas that will be explored include how men and woman approach love and sexuality differently and also how to communicate with a partner.  
  Rowton Hotel, 145 Alcester St, Birmingham
 

The London Fetish Weekend (5th - 8th October 2017)

This is London's biggest fetish happening of the whole year. Over the four days, there is a huge variety of events for you to pick and choose. One of the main happenings is a unique Saturday London Alternative Market with a fashion show and an extensive range of erotic balls and themed parties. By far London's kinkiest weekend ever! 
  Various locations in central London
 

Playspace (6th October 2017)

Playspace is a private members' only kinky play event situated about 45 minutes from central London in Surrey. It has a huge selection of top notch dungeon equipment, a licensed bar and a finger buffet that includes a decadent chocolate fountain. Please note that while membership is free people are vetted and require a reference, but it is well worth doing to get access to this fabulous event.
 Hidden venue in Surrey
 

The Dream Boys (7th October 2017)

The Dream Boys are the UK's most famous all male strip group but this evening is more than just that. You also get a hilarious drag queen act, a free drink on arrival, finger buffet, a photo opportunity with the boys and access into the nightclub after the show. Seems like a wild night out for the girls if you ask me! 
  Halo Nightclub, Exeter Road, Bournemouth
 

Toppers Club (14th October 2017)

Labelled as an ideal first kinky club destination for BDSM newbies, Toppers takes place at the famous The Flying Dutchman in Camberwell. This is a late night event though as things only start at 9 pm, but make sure you have plenty of sleep the night before as it stays open until 4 am.
  The Flying Dutchman, 156 Wells Way, Camberwell, London
 

Fierce Talk - The Joy of being a Sexual Woman with Harriet Minter (24th October 2017)

This is your chance to hear Harriet's story of her journey to discover her sexual self. Harriet was the founder and editor or the Guardians Woman in Leadership section, but this time she will reveal how breaking up with her boyfriend set her on a road self-discovery and finding happiness. Please note this event is for women only. 
  23 Paul Street, 23 Paul Street, London
 

Burlesque Idol (27th October 2017)

It's the 8th year of this fabulous competition. Featuring burlesque performers from across the globe who have battled their way through the rounds to get to the Grand Finale. There will be a panel of superstar judges led by Miss Tempest Rose who will wow the audience while the votes are counted. At the end of the night Burlesque Idol 2017 will be crowned.
  The Hippodrome Casino, Cranbourn Street, Leicester Square, London
 

The Dark Circus Party (28th October 2017) 

How about a cabaret burlesque night with a twist where you the audience is part of the spectacle? The Dark Circus Party is putting on a Halloween special this year with a haunting ghoulish theme that will envelop guests into a dark and thrilling world for the night. Dressing up is an absolute must if you want to attend this decadent Halloween affair.
  The Grand Hall St Pancras, Euston Road, London
 

Swingers Halloween Fancy Dress Party (28th October 2017)

This swingers club boasts a heated swimming pool, huge hot tubs, sauna and steam room as well multiple play spaces and a clubhouse that serves food and drink. The Halloween party is open to couples, single males and single females and runs from 8 pm - 3 am. So why not dig out your freakiest Halloween costume and let your Saturday night go with a swing.
  Eureka, Manor Lane, Fawkham, Kent
 

Club Noir The Beautiful and the Damned' Halloween Burlesque (28th October 2017)

This is an eclectic evening of vintage, retro and modern music with a variety of different cabaret and burlesque acts that will delight and excite you and, of course, it will all have a Halloween theme. No jeans or trainers are allowed, and the audience is encouraged to enter into the spirit of things and dress up.
  O2 Academy Glasgow, 121 Eglinton St, Glasgow