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Dick Pics | Do They Ever Work?

Most of us on online dating sites have gotten them—the dreaded dick pics—including some of my heterosexual male friends. Which always seemed odd to

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Sex Tips | Is It Normal Fear Sex Out Of My Comfort Zone?

Sex columnist, photographer and sex blogger Molly Moore responds to a reader who's afraid to go outside their sexual comfort zone. How do you go

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Is It OK to Find Love So Soon After a Breakup?

Sex columnist, photographer and sex blogger Molly Moore shares her best advice on moving on after a breakup. When is it okay to start dating and

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In a poly relationship? You probably have to explain this to people every day

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On a crowded train, you don't get to choose who you sit across from. In my case, my neighbor across the aisle was a soldier on his way to make a court appearance

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Dear Abi: Have I failed at online dating?

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Minor change here at Dear Abi: we’ve decided to switch to answering one question per column, to enable me to give your questions longer and more detailed answers. As always, you can ask

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Compersion: Being happy when your partner is happy with someone else.

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Years ago, when my decade long marriage opened up, it wasn’t all smooth sailing. The first time I went on a date with another man my husband had a very strong

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Ask Abi: On Chemsex, Threesomes, and Dating Married Men

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Dear Abi,

I’ve been dating someone as their secondary partner for six months now. It’s going well, but the more time passes the more I realise that I want

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Why rebound sex is so important

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Is rebound sex ever cool? Breaking up is no joke, but getting laid without making a commitment might just take the sting out of

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Ask Abi: Happy threesomes, finding a unicorn, and the awkward one night stand

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Dear Abi,

I'm gay and in my early 20's, in a large American city. I've been dating a guy for the last eight months. It's not quite casual but not super

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Ask Abi: Spanking, fisting, and really guys, why so many dick pics?

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 Dear Abi,

What's the deal with fisting? Is it a real thing that real people actually do, or is it just something that happens in porn films?

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Ask Abi: Talking dirty, newly poly and dating through a transition

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Dear Abi,

My wife and I have been happily married for fifteen years, and we have two children. Even at the beginning her sex drive was much lower than mine, but over time it’s dwindled

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An Open Relationship After 10 Years of Marriage

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I was an adventurous teenager. I was lucky to have sought out good information about sex and to have connected with some great communities of people. At 17 years old I was already involved

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Ask Abi: Online dating, the Mile High Club and best practices for fucking your boss

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Dear Abi,

I'm straight-ish woman in her early thirties, and I live in a large European capital. I’m newly out of a terribly codependent LTR, and I want to start dating again. I’ve

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Ask Abi: Public kink, open relationship etiquette and proposing a threesome

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Dear Abi,

I'm a lesbian in my early thirties. I've known for a long time that I'm kinky, but all of my experience has been in the bedroom with long term partners. I'd like to start

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Ask Abi: Sex Advice With A Difference

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One of my most recent articles here at Popcorn.dating was entitled Bad Advice and This Month in Glamour: ‘Let The Sex Games Begin’. I had a good old rant about how terrible the sex

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5 Ways to be a great secondary partner

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There are no set rules for polyamory, and that's one of the best things about it. One of the more common models, though, is for an established couple to continue being each other's

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Make your own rules: 4 tips for better relationships

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Relationships are complicated. They are made especially complicated because media and society portray a certain kind of relationship—generally a monogamous, heterosexual,

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Five mistakes most polyamorous people make

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I was sixteen years old the first time I got involved in a polyamorous relationship, and I haven’t gone back to monogamy since. One of the things I've noticed, over the years, is

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The Bisexual Women's Guide to Dating Women

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If you get a group of bisexual women together to chat about dating women and what their sexuality is like for them in practice, there’s one thing you’ll hear over and over again: that however

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What I look for in an online dating site

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What I look for in an online dating site

It's estimated that there are over 8,000 online dating sites worldwide, so in such a competitive market it's

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11 Types of people you'll meet on Tinder

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1. The complete bullshitter

His profile says he’s 27, but that’s probably more relevant to the amount of hair on his head.

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7 Things to consider before going polyamorous

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Sexual incompatibility, boredom, or the urge to explore another gender can be reasons to break up, but they can also be the grounds for opening up a relationship. Here's a list of things to

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8 Ways to Fuck Up a First Date

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Ways to fuck up a first date

I’ve done the whole Internet dating thing, I’ve met people in bars and I’ve had relationships with my friends. I understand that dating can be fucking

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10 reasons why you should fuck on the first date!

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When I posted this question on the Gays.com Facebook page a while back, I was more than a tad surprised by the overwhelming response from our followers: the poll was about 90/10 in favour of

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Why we cheat: The case for non-monogamy

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He cheated on me. The word has this resonance of betrayal, of lies and of heartbreak. We imagine furtive texts, secretive rendezvous, hot sex and mixed emotions. And the culture reinforces

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Bisexual and poly: a winning combination?

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Subverting categories

Bisexuality is, surprisingly, still a problematic category for some in an era when we like to classify people. Calling people

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Non-monogamy: How to come clean about it

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Everywhere we look in society we see monogamy as being promoted as the best way to live. Celebrity couples, expensive marriages, the church and television all seem to preach a message that is

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Polyamory: My personal definition

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The very personal definition and everyday experience of Polyamory from our guest author, Vivian

I'm a woman who has been in a polyamorous relationship

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