6 Sexy Experiments to Try in 2017

It’s that time of year again. Time to promise ourselves we’ll lose 30 pounds in a month, get ripped, go vegan, jump out of a plane, quit that soul-sucking job, and all the other New Year’s resolutions we make every year.

More often than not, we give up after a few weeks or realize that we hate heights and jumping out of a plane will make us wet our pants.

Why not make some new goals (let’s not call them resolutions) that you can actually do next year and that will improve your relationships and your sex life? That sounds much better than starving yourself to lose weight.

6 Sexy Experiments to Try in 2017

1. Admit a Fantasy to Your Partner

We all have that one thing we really want to try in bed, but we’re too scared to admit it. Whether it’s anal sex, prostate massages, a threesome, or bondage, make this the year you actually admit one of your fantasies or desires to your partner. You never know how they’ll react, and there’s a good chance they’ll try it with you at least once.

2. Fuck in a Different Way

If you’re the missionary-with-the-lights-out type, this could be the year to try doggy-style. If you only have sex in your bedroom, try the kitchen table. Whatever your fucking routine, this is the year to do it in a different way. Let her ride on top while you pinch her nipples. Spank your partner’s ass while you fuck them from behind. Switching things up will make things hotter and more exciting.

3. Try Dirty Talk

I can type dirty talk all the time - and I do. Some of my favorite words to type are cunt, pussy, and cock. But saying the words is really hard. If your partner thinks the idea is hot and you’re willing, try it. It’ll be hard the first time but start slow. Say things like, “You make me so hot” or “I want you to fuck me.” Before you know it, you’ll be saying delightfully filthy things like, “Fuck me with that big, fat cock and stuff my juicy cunt!”

4. Buy a New Sex Toy

Maybe you’ve got your one favorite toy - a massager, a dildo, a vibrator. 2017 is the year to try something new. Maybe you’ve never played with a sex toy, and you’re a little unsure. Make this the year you buy your first one. There is a toy for every taste and every kink. Maybe you want extra stimulation on your clit. Maybe you want to try anal. Perhaps you’re curious about the hype over the Hitachi and other massagers. This is the year to start exploring sex toys!

5. Say What You Really Feel

How many times have you swallowed down an annoyance or a complaint with your partner to keep the peace or avoid an argument? Too many times. Relationships grow and get better when everyone involved communicates. That includes talking about problems and saying the hard things. Don’t go on the attack and try to stay calm, but tell your partner how you really feel. Things will either get better, or you’ll decide you both deserve a better relationship, but at least you won’t feel like you can’t say what you think anymore.

6. Masturbate Together

Plenty of people think masturbation is something only lonely single people do. Sure, they masturbate too, but masturbation can be a great way to get sexy together. Maybe you want to watch. Maybe you’ll be so turned on; you join in on their fun. You’ll definitely learn how your partner reaches orgasm and what kind of touches they like which only makes your sex better later. If you’ve always masturbated alone, it will feel awkward at first, but if you let yourself enjoy the sensations, you’ll likely relax and get into it.

Dump the boring old resolutions you make and break every year. Try sexy goals that help your relationship, give you more orgasms, and let you fuck better than ever before. Who doesn’t want more of that next year?

Kayla Lords is a freelance writer, sex blogger, and a masochistic babygirl living the 24/7 D/s life. Follow her on Twitter @Kaylalords. Or help her get to Eroticon 2017 from her website.