Dates in Nordrhein-Westfalen

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With the wide range of open minded people in North Rhine-Westphalia, finding a partner is easy. There are hot Swingerclubs in the Ruhr area, Cologne is the capital city in the German gay scene and with plenty of Rest stops along the way- sex in NRW can be quite the experience.

Honestly, finding unusual places in NRW to have sex is not so easy. Sex underground is not such an easy find. Previously there were many mines throughout the region, but now there are only two. The most famous of them being Zeche Zollverein in Essen. Normally unused and quiet unless of course someone has taken over the space to put on one of the region’s various cultural events.

Carry on along the main artery of Ruhr using the A40 motorway (most famous for its slow traffic). You will undoubtedly stop along one of the many Rest stops which have become a stronghold during the carnival season for travel between Cologne and Düsseldorf. Sex in this “fifth season” is common place in Rhineland. Fools and hormones play a steamy game right up through Rose Monday. The race is on to see if you will bed down with a nun, a pilot or any of the other crazy costumed crusaders you’ll find running around Cologne at Carnival. (The German joke being (Kon)Dom for the Kölnerdom)

The rest of the year in Rhineland is known for being cheerful. Lots of men are attracted to this media city on the Rhine River. Saunas and bars of all sizes for gays and lesbians adorn the countryside and are popular destinations for people all over the world. If you are looking for something with a bit more action, swing by the the Fickstutenmarkt in Cologne. A very special type of market indeed!

The rest of the region is considered by many Germans to be a bit backwards. A running joke about Bielefeld is that it doesn’t actually exist and so when you see it on a map it’s a giant surprise. Tranquil as it is, there is still Impulse. The local newspaper wrote an article “Bielefed_ Poor but sexy” and also reports about several erotic chain stores Novum, including online sex toy retailersEis.de And our own Popcorn.dating appeared in the local newspaper with a wonderful review. Other companies covered include Miele For sex in interesting places, check out Washing machine.