In Paris in the 1970s, men performing in female costumes became popular for their bawdy and audacious performances. Thus birthing the era of the infamous drag queen. Of course, homophobia came rushing in to stigmatize them, but actually these men were not necessarily gay or genderqueer. There were just good-humored performers. Today, crossdressing and drag are totally different things. Drag is used for performance and public figures, while crossdressing is normally a casual or private practice in a person's life. Both men and women engage in these activities and both groups involve any number of sexual orientations. As the fabulous RuPaul says "We're born naked, the rest is all drag." Porn has had a tendency to confuse all this with outrageous stereotypes. Terms, like "ladyboy" among others, aren't considered respectful by most people outside of the industry. The most important thing to know is that sex isn't gender and gender isn't sexual orientation.
Pretty obvious really- SEX toys that go in your butt. Your behind, specifically your asshole is brimming with nerve endings which connect to other delightful places in your body. And hello, they’re not just for gay guys. EVERYONE can enjoy anal toys, as a couple or alone for masturbating. So relax and open up. In men, a lot of these nerves go to muscles in their pelvic floor or urethra, making orgasm possible with a little help from your (lubricant based) friends. For women, of course, it’s the alphabet soup of spots. This one is the A-spot- short for anterior fornix which is located on the ventral groove of the cervix. The A-spot just happens to be easier to reach with a bit of back door action. Examples of anal toys are butt plugs, dildos and anal beads. Each one is designed with special intentions and can also be warm ups for anal sex. Important tip for anal sex: keep that shit clean. That means: toys are clean (if used with multiple partners use condoms), assholes are clean (learn about enemas) and fingers are clean, nails are cut SHORT. Curious about more ways to play with butts? Anal Sex, Butts, Ass Play
This little true story is about the first time I was with a man and a night that I will never forget. My name is Selena. Well that's my girly name, I'm a cross-dresser. I've loved dressing up in women ...