The amount of pain depends on the quality of the candles and the height the wax is dropped from. The sensation could be a nice lukewarm, or a searing hot. Smaller candles and wax falling from higher up tend to be less hot. The wax pools a bit, and is then spilled with care onto the willing victim. Sex shops often sell candles that have a lower melting point for less risk of burning. The idea is to get a nice redness with a little puff in the skin, but not to injure anyone. As wax pools and cools, a layer will be formed over the skin. A whip or a switch might be just perfect to snap that apart. For any bears among us, though, it might be wise to put a layer of plastic between your body hair and that wax, unless you are into a really, really, really painful finish! For more hot ways to spice it up, check out: Blindfolds, BDSM, Bondage
Wet look clothing and lingerie are often seen in the Gothic and BDSM scenes. They sometimes accompany lace, corsets, and fishnets, but are often worn minimally and with revealing cuts. They can be bought at most sex shops or in fantasy lingerie sections. Wet look clothes hug the figure tightly and are generally thin and smooth- hence the name. They also tend to carry temperatures quickly, so they augment the stimulation of getting hot and heavy with someone. They are great attire for role play, and tend to be the go-to uniforms for Tops and Dominatrixes. If you're new to the sex club/party scene, and aren't sure how you want to handle the dress code; the wet look is a simple and sexy option that will get you through the door for sure. If you're in to wet look clothing, also check out: Catsuits, Latex Fetish, Spandex